Happy New Year 2013

Happy New  Year to all of Us! Sorry for not updating my blog for a week ohhh I think a few weeks coz there was too many errands to do, too much stress and simply too much work to finish before saying goodbye to 2012 and happy to say bye bye coz 2012 was not a fantastic year for me I really hope that 2013 will be better I don't ask too much I only need to be safe and all of my family will be free from any harm any sickness and free from stressful life. I tell you some what happened to us while I wasn't blogging, this was what happened my husband got a mild heart problem and he was in the emergency room for the whole night for observation of his heart and blood pressure was a bit higher than normal this was a few days before Christmas. The night before I got a small car accident in Marseille we attended a Christmas party of YCPR a yachtclub where we are member.Just a simple advise from cuddling mommy that if you drive if you are the one on the wheel follow your instinct don't listen the people behind you sometimes they insist that they know the way but they don't and this is typical for the french people. My former employee still eating me up and continue trying their best to humiliate me sorry but I have to fightback if that's what they want. Christmas shopping was exhausting every shop was full of shoppers especially toys shops since Christmas is for children and my son asked for a clown and a cowboy but we didn't find it in joueclub so we needed to go somewhere again then we finally found woody the sheriff from toy story but didn't find clown toy. Then gift wrapping again and again for a week after shopping for more than a week haaah so no blogging for sure i love to write but I have a lot of responsibilities too at home as Mother a wife and a homemaker and even I am also working most of the time I blog because I feel that seems someone is listening to me this is my scapegoat somewhat a comfort zone for me.I prefer to write and read or play with my son than to be with not so good copines. After Christmas here's come the New Year yes NY what are we going to do?? We usually spend NY with my inlaws but I find it too boring I don't feel the spirit of NY and Christmas at all for me Christmas is not all about gifts honestly I love to spend Christmas in Asia there I feel the true meaning of it and even the NY. Anyway this the life I've got, to think about my seule happiness is over I can still be very happy in some other occasion maybe spend those holidays once in a while in my home country the most important thing for me now is my son happiness he is happy to be with his grandparents so I will be with him and be happy for him. Happy New Year everyone may we all have our dreams and happiness for this year 2013.

Paris on December

Coucou!

Yes Paris again in a span of 3 months but this time it was very Cold. There was snow and wet because after snow the rain poured in.Champs elysées was beautiful and crowded very crowded but we had fun  the three of us didn't stop eating the foods from the food stands they're selling on Marché du Noél even the vin chaud didn't skip from me helped me to feel a bit warm.
I still love Paris, for me this is the city that I will keep coming back anytime if we have the chance to live in this town I will not decline but I will still keep my place in Cote d'azur though.. because cote d'azur is just simply my home my beloved town  we are more relax here  we don't live in a fastlane like the Parisian does.We are close to everything , Montagnes, plages, soleil we also have the best things plus it's less expensive. The toureiffel was fantastique too especially they lighted it for christmas and even the normal lighting was a grande class they don't light it all the night just only every hour and only stay for a few minutes maybe 15 minutes.Too bad it was only for a weekend very short but I think we enjoyed every moment . We also had dinner with friends in Benkay a japanese restaurant situated in Novotel where we stayed but it wasn't really fantastique food despite that it was extremely expensive I still prefer my yamato restaurant here in my town.
Here are some photos of our escapades. And I forgot that today is my birthday! Since I become unemployed I often forget the date and the day.

We were crossing the bridge this was the Seine River and the tower was just in front this was after our dinner in an Iranian restaurant which was better than benkay b'coz we were very full and it wasn't expensive.

The left photo was the day before going home this just after lunch in a small korean restaurant it was good but the place was tight.But since it was sunday so we didn't have much choices , you know France businesses are mostly close on sundays.

This was the view from our room we had a room in the 21st floor so we had a nice view of the River Seine which my lovable son adores coz he can watch the train passingby and also the boats.



This was in Champs élysees, lovely but as I said it was too crowded but we had fun, we had the gourmandise we had the fantastique weekend.

See you again soon Paris.

The humps and bumps of life

My life has been experiencing trouble in quite a few weeks now or i rather say some months of sleepless nights the only reason is my former job that really wanted to kill me as who I am...I have never felt humiliated in my whole life this is just the first time..but I will fight back I won't allow this to happen again.I grew up as a poor girl , I lost my mother when I was just a baby , I lost my grandmother when I was 10 then my father when I was 23 that was the horrible moments of my existence I thought.

All this time I think I did my best as an employee trying to get a small salary and live a normal life of a woman who has a 9 to 5 job but that job was a nightmare I can't imagine how they manipulate the people to do the work without paying overtime pay I was thinking maybe because I don't complain I just let it happened now who is suffering? Me and maybe my little boy and my husband since I arrived late and no time to take care of them,no time for cuddling for my angel. I love to work  I also love to have colleages but I was unlucky for that ...Maybe I was being too  idealistic maybe I'm asking too much.
Honestly I don't have much friends but I have real friends I only have few but real and I'm happy for that. I'm not closing my door for a new opportunity ,new friends ,new trials.Anyhow  we learn from our experiences or mistakes but life must continue whatever it takes because life is made for it we will always  have humps and bumps but we keep driving and reach our goal.

Gros Bisous à tous.

Paris and EuroDisney.

Last September I suddenly decided to go for a trip to Paris and I wanted my son to visit eurodisney. In Paris we stayed in hotel it was just the two of us while we visited some places like Bercy village, took the hop in hop off bus and  the bateau mouche. We  wanted to eat at eiffel tower restaurant but there was too many people  very long qeue and  there was one elevator working the other one was out of service.

Not very late to begin.

My name is Cristina 36 years old soon to be 37 coz my birthday is coming in less than 2 weeks. I grew up as an orphan my mom died of breast cancer when I was 18 months old I was left with my maternal grand mother since my dad remarried after a few years of being a single father and he died when I was 23. Our relationship was not perfect though I know he loves me as his youngest daughter from his first marriage. I struggle my life for my education I finished my high school  with my own courage I needed to work hard for my expenses I got a little bit of help from my father and some of my siblings. It was a tough life but I didn't give up  I know if there's a struggle there's a success I kept on holding on after high school I needed to work I wasn't able to finance my college education but in my mind I'm going to college I need to have better education I need to plant a seed for my future so just after a year I enrolled for a vocational course that was all I can afford but just after year I needed to stop because of financial lacking again so this time I decided to quite college  and went abroad and work, then I met my future husband until I decided to go back to school again even for a simple certificate that I can bring wherever I go together with the knowledge I got.

 Now I am Mother of a beautiful son and a wife of a French champion in Squash. I am a simple housewife taking care of my household but internet called my attention to write about my life as Mother  a wife and daughter in law. I am now base in France, We live in a small town called Bouc bel Air and our  life here is simple. We live in a two story house where downstairs are my parents in law. I know it is long over due to write my diary  but I believe it is better  to make up done do nothing. This is going to be my personal diary and you are free to share your opinions , beliefs and even your perspective in life. I will share to you my wonderful world.

Gros bisous